I hate confrontation. I've grown more and more comfortable with it recently (eventually we all have to learn to stand up for ourselves), but it's definitely not in my top 10 favorite things to deal with on a daily basis. Likewise, I detest drama in my personal life. I like to look at everything objectively before I make any hasty decisions, and when drama does arise, I do my very best to settle it quickly without drawing much attention to the situation.
This being said, one would assume that I would also be anti-drama in others' lives. However, this doesn't seem to be so. Of course, I hate to see anyone unhappy... but I get a sort of thrill out of playing referee.
Maybe it's not the drama itself that I love, but the sorting through everything. Blatantly organizing the details of messy situations like family feuds and love affairs seems to be my niche. I enjoy putting things in perspective... objectively.... as well as I can.
This being said, one would assume that I would also be anti-drama in others' lives. However, this doesn't seem to be so. Of course, I hate to see anyone unhappy... but I get a sort of thrill out of playing referee.
Maybe it's not the drama itself that I love, but the sorting through everything. Blatantly organizing the details of messy situations like family feuds and love affairs seems to be my niche. I enjoy putting things in perspective... objectively.... as well as I can.